The living still have Brandon: I meant ‘play’ in the context of BDSM, which does not always involve ‘sex’ in the conventional sense.
Please have the courtesy not to shit all over my experience of the real Adam from your high horse. Last, but not least I loved him very dearly, we cooked together, we played together, I have some wonderful memories of him and I miss him very very much. While he did get caught up in drugs he also had long periods of sobriety so don’t assume he just died of drugs. While Adam did work out I also know he had several health issues, some from childhood, which would not be readily apparent and may have contributed to his heart attack. Clearly in your perfect world with your perfect self you resent having to deal with anyone who doesn’t live up to your expectations, but I wonder, how perfect are you and how much of that is just pure (imperfect) ego? While he did do porn, part of the reason was to demystify and ‘mainstream’ BDSM sex, so in that sense he was trying to be a pioneer for the rest of the BDSM community. He made lots of money for the several companies I knew him to work at and at one point was worth well over a million dollars (before the market crashed and caught everyone). He was an accomplished businessman as well as a porn star.
